When to Level Up My Young Tennis Player’s Tournament Schedule?

One of the most common questions I hear from parents is:

“How do I know when my child is ready to play tougher tournaments?”

It’s a great question — because getting the timing right can make a huge difference. Move up too soon, and your child may lose confidence. Wait too long, and they might get bored or stop improving. The key is finding that sweet spot where challenge and confidence grow together.

When They’re Consistently Succeeding at Their Current Level

If your child is regularly winning matches, often reaching the final rounds, or even dominating their current level of competition, that’s usually a sign they’re ready to test themselves at the next step.


Look for consistent performance, not just one good weekend. If they’re winning around 70% of their matches, competing confidently against top seeds, and showing maturity in how they handle wins and losses — it’s time to level up.

It’s About Performance, Not Just Results

Before moving up, focus on how they’re playing. Are they:

  • Using smart tactics and problem-solving on court?

  • Competing hard even when behind?

  • Managing emotions and staying calm in pressure moments?


If so, those are the true indicators of readiness. Tennis development isn’t only about results — it’s about building the skills to handle tougher environments.



The Readiness Checklist


Before entering a tougher tournament, make sure your player can:

  • Compete for a full weekend without physical or emotional burnout

  • Warm up, recover, and prepare independently

  • Reflect on their matches and set new goals

  • Maintain effort and focus even when things aren’t going their way

If they can handle those situations, they’re ready for the next challenge.

Protecting Confidence

A simple rule I often use:

“If they’re winning almost everything, move up.

If they’re losing everything, step back.”


Confidence and growth go hand in hand. Ideally, your player should be in a place where they win around 60% of their matches — challenged but not overwhelmed.


Example Roadmap (Ages 8–13)

  • Step 1: Club and JDS events → build experience

  • Step 2: JT 125 → learn to travel and compete

  • Step 3: JT 250/500 → test state-level

  • Step 4: Selected National or ITF events → only for advanced or professional-track players

Remember: every player’s timeline is unique. Some develop quickly, others need more time — and both paths are completely fine.

The Journey Mindset

Progress in tennis isn’t linear. Players grow in stages — technically, mentally, and emotionally. Leveling up should feel exciting, not stressful. Encourage your child to see each new tournament as an opportunity to learn more about themselves as a competitor.

When they’re curious, confident, and ready to take on a challenge, that’s the perfect time to step up.

At Our Tennis Journey, we help parents and players find that balance — keeping tennis both competitive and joyful. If you’re unsure which tournaments are right for your child, chat with your coach. Together, we can build a pathway that challenges them at just the right level.

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